You two have been
going out for a while now and things couldn’t be any greater. He ticks most of
the items on your “Perfect Match” list, he loves you, is responsible, takes
good care of you, and is generally a good guy.
But why hasn’t he proposed yet? “What could be holding him
back?” you wonder. Besides the obvious question of whether a man is
interested in sealing your relationship, there are some telltale signs that he
is ready to pop the famous four-lettered question.
Knowing that people and their relationships are not
completely subject to being black and white like the points raised in articles
like this, it is important that as you read through our list, you check them
side-by-side with the experiences in your relationship and the man you’re
dating.
If his discussions with you surpass shallow matters and
actually cover important topics such as your goals, dreams, starting a family
with you, a future with both of you in it together, having kids, etc then this
guy could mean serious business.
Additionally, if his discussions include plans bothering
around “we”, meaning the both of you, and not just “I” revolving around him,
then this could mean he is hinting at a future of which you are part of.
It’s important to note that this point on its own doesn’t
conclusively mean this guy wants to marry you. However, it definitely hints
that he is thinking of building a more serious relationship with you. And
essentially, it will be up to you to figure out what exactly his intentions
are.
- Your
Relationship Is Public Knowledge
Do not confuse this to mean that your relationship is
plastered on billboards or social media. Your relationship being public knowledge
means that you two have a relationship where the key people in your life such
as; friends, parents, family, colleagues [optionally], and people of interest,
know about your relationship. When a man is comfortable with having your
relationship in the open, it means he might be heading towards the marriage
road with you.
Again, this point on its own is inconclusive to the fact
that he may actually “wife” you. We’ve all heard of cases where certain Yoruba
Demons [a.k.a heartbreakers] make their relationship with a girl public without
the intention of marrying her. Yes guys, deep sigh.
- He’s
Dating You Exclusively
If your man is dating you exclusively, then he must mean
business. Then again, this could mean otherwise. However, it is a pro and
indication that a man’s ready to settle down.
Only a serious guy would have his attention fully focused
romantically on you.
- He
Mentions Wanting To Marry You
Contrary to what some may think, a marriage proposal doesn’t
just pop out of thin air.
Most men who are ready to settle down would have had
discussions with their significant orders relating to marriage before actually
proposing. Remember that marriage is designed to be a life-long commitment and
no one would want to go into it if they weren’t sure about the person they’d be
spending the rest of their life with.
- Your
Opinion Matters To Him
Does he take your opinion seriously? If he does, he’s
probably ready to settle down with you. But as usual, don’t get it twisted as
this is not conclusive.
Men are naturally engineered to be full of ego and it would
take a man who deeply respects you and sees you in his life long term to take
your opinions seriously.
At the end of the day, do not take marriage advice from us
as we are not marriage counsellors. However, we do know a thing or two about
relationships.
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