Picture this, guys. You’re in a public place and then you
spot a very beautiful lady and all you want to do is speak with her. Before you
gather up the courage to walk up to her and get to know her, your brain raises
an alarm and demands that the mission is aborted.
You abort the mission to speak to her and maybe, you’ll
never quite forgive yourself for “effing up”.
One of the biggest reasons a guy avoids speaking to a girl
he’s attracted to in public is that he simply has no clue how to approach her.
As simple as it seems, walking up to a stranger, engaging them in a
conversation is no small feat.
However, should a guy put in the work to learn the
fundamentals about approaching a lady, he’ll have nothing to worry about when
it comes to engaging the lady in a conversation.
Be Polite
A no brainer. First impressions do matter especially when
trying to impress a woman so pay attention to your attitude. Be as polite as
possible.
By remaining courteous, you would have no problem landing a
subsequent date, and new friends.
Respect Her Personal
Space
Most times the importance of personal space is overlooked.
Remember you’re a stranger and so, must give as much respectable distance as
possible.
You do not want to be that guy all up in a lady’s face. Not
only would you lose a shot at a second meeting, but she’d find you irritating.
Don’t also forget that when it comes to respecting personal
space, taking up too little space can be detrimental to your first meeting.
Be Real
As much as you work towards being polite, it is important
not to lose yourself in the process. Most guys do not know this, but women
prefer men who are real.
So toss the tough guy, act aside and be yourself around her.
You may never know what about you she’d fall for.
But take caution not to get too comfortable while trying to
be real. Importantly, you want to find a balance when it comes to being real
and making a good first impression.
Watch Your Language
You do not want to be caught using vulgar words with a woman
you approach. Not only would she be disgusted, but she’d most likely walk away
or bring the conversation to an end.
Additionally, you do not want to smother a lady with
over-familiar language. That’s just downright creepy.
Keep your lingo simple, clean, and sharp.
Genuinely Compliment
Her
The first thing every man should know about women is that
they love compliments. Any woman whether old or young, from an older generation
or otherwise, is moved by compliments no matter how little.
There’s always something to compliment about. Whether it’s
her physically, hair, dress, or non-physical like character, etc.
So compliment her, and extra points if she smiles at your
compliments. So keep your compliments genuine and sweet.
Speak Less, Listen
More
If you want to successfully make a great impression on any
woman you meet, listen more. Yes, women love to be listened to. They have
opinions they’d love to share so be patient and listen.
In addition to this, you want to steer clear off talking too
much. Get to know her better; ask them questions and pay adequate attention to
hearing what she has to say.
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