Divorced Nollywood actress, Padita Agu, recently shocked her
fans when she revealed that she was raped at the age of 15, right inside her
house.
Speaking on her YouTube Channel, the single mother of one
who has found a new passion in vlogging, recounted how armed robbers assaulted
her.
She said, “I was raped at 15. We were attacked by armed robbers
in the house and I got raped. That was my first experience and it was horrible.
I had no therapy. Nobody talked to me or talked me through it. I just lived
with it and dealt with it myself. I didn’t know how to deal with. I just
carried on with life from that point. My sex life was messed up until I got
married. Before I got married, I told my would-be husband the challenge I had.
He said there was no problem and he would walk me through it.”
On how she was able to overcome her aversion for sex, Agu
said, “When we got married, my then-husband just got me a book to read and
figure myself out. It was a big issue for me. I got frustrated at some point
because he was always not happy about it, too. I was depressed for most times
because of this. I didn’t know what to do. I tried practising what I read in
the book I was given but it was not working.
“So one day, out of frustration, I reached out to a woman
who sold food items not too far from where I lived back then. I started telling
her my frustrations with sex. She told me she was once like that before and
told me the simple things she did. She told me that whenever she was having
sex, she would begin to moan and give the husband the impression that she was
enjoying it. Whatever he does to her, she would heighten it. At the beginning,
she was just acting it up but after a while, she realised that she was
beginning to feel the things she was acting.
“What I picked from that was that words are powerful. When
she started saying those words, she didn’t mean them; she was just saying those
things for him to enjoy it. Later, her words became her reality and she started
enjoying sex. I learnt from her and began to put into practice what she said.
At first, it didn’t look like it was working but I kept on doing it and the
story is different today,” she said
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