While ladies would always say
they can’t date broke guys, there are those that don’t mind doing so.
That he does not have a job at
the moment or that he’s down on his luck does not disqualify him from finding
love; and if you find yourself falling for a guy like this, here are things you
need to know:
1. Be certain
You cannot go into this kind of
relationship based on half-baked convictions. Hell no.
You need to be pretty sure that
this is what you want, and that you are prepared for whatever comes out of it.
People – friends and family -
will question your decision to do this and if your stand isn’t solid enough,
you might waver.
You also need to be reasonably
sure of the kind of guy you’re about to date.
Frankly, while it is admirable
that you don’t care about his financial status at the moment, you still need to
be sure of his drive and desire to not be broke for too long.
What’s his attitude towards
getting his finances right?
It’d be catastrophic to say you
love someone who is broke now and sits on his behind without plan and effort to
break free from his present situation.
2. There’ll be inconveniences
There’ll be that, and there’ll
also be sacrifices.
You know those things that your
former boyfriend used to do because he could afford it?
Sorry, this new guy won’t be able
to.
You know those great, cute gifts
your friends get from their boyfriends and post on Instagram?
Sorry ma’am, you might not be
able to post them for a while.
And hey, you might also have to
share some of your salary with him while he’s still waiting to find his feet.
It comes with the territory.
3. The lovemaking is [always] on point
Ok. It’s not like there is
empirical evidence or some stat to back up this assertion, but word on the
streets support it.
It is believed that broke guys
somehow have mad skills in the bedroom and often try to make up for their
financial weakness with sexual prowess.
4. It could end in disaster
I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad
news but the fact that you stood by a guy when he has nothing is not assurance
that your love will be forever.
It’s cruel and sad, but that’s
how it is.
You could run all the supportive
girlfriend scheme, you could be loyal and faithful and prayerful and you could
even hand him your ATM card and he’ll still do you dirty when he hits it big.
See, some guys don’t even wait to
hammer before they start to misbehave. You’ll be funding him, and he’ll be
using your own money to cheat on you.
This is the kind of stuff that
happens, guys.
Let’s just hope it doesn’t happen
to you.
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