The National Parents, Teachers Association of Nigeria
(NAPTAN) has decried the spate of suicide in Nigeria, especially among
adolescents, urging parents and guardians to be more vigilant and monitor
activities of their children.
This follows a student who recently committed suicide for
failing to score high grades in the just concluded Unified Tertiary
Matriculation Examination (UTME).
Reacting to the spate of suicide of adolescents, Chief
Adeolu Ogunbanjo, 2nd Deputy President of NAPTAN, told the newsmen in Lagos
that parents must pay more attention to their children to avert suicide
tendencies.
He said suicidal act was condemnable but the cause should be
addressed.
“Honestly, it is very sad, very disappointing and yes it is
very condemnable. But condemning it alone will not bring the solution; we as
parents must be alert to stop this menace.
“Parents must be alert always to identify changes or any
suicide tendencies in their children.
“Children, especially undergraduates, need constant
monitoring in order to avert any danger.
“Nowadays, many of us parents do not have time for our
children anymore, we only worry about their upkeep but neglect the social life.
“When we talk of time, it is divided into two; normal time
and quality time — and what our children need is quality time,” he said.
Speaking on the case of the undergraduate who committed
suicide, the NAPTAN Deputy President said the incident might not be unconnected
with the economic situation in the country.
He said the economic situation may lead to suicide, adding that "one cannot rule out depression’’.
“It is not right for anybody to commit suicide for
whatsoever reason but for a depressed person, they will not think that it is
not right.
“A depressed person only acts on impulse,’’ Ogunbanjo said.
Speaking on students committing suicide because they failed
JAMB, Ogunbanjo said failure was part of life and there was no success without
failure.
Parental care is also very important for our children and
quality time with them to check their class work, homework and assignment,
particularly at the primary and secondary school level.
He urged parents to spend quality time with their children
and wards to put their children in check.
“Failure is part of success, failure makes you learn, it
makes you know what to do next to succeed.
“But it is unfortunate that our youths will commit suicide
because they failed JAMB examination.
“Parents have a lot to do, they should stop harassing their
children over their performance in examinations.
“Parents should spend 15 to 30 minutes every day with their
children to put them in check,“ he said.
Commenting on the case of the undergraduate who drowned in a
swimming pool in Abuja recently, he urged the parents of the victim to pursue
the case to a logical conclusion in order to serve as a deterrent to other
students who may be contemplating such an evil act.
The NAPTAN official described the act as an evil which should
he condemned by all.
Ogunbanjo urged the state and the federal government to ensure
that Nigerian youths were viably engaged to discourage them from involvement in
vices.
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