Nigerian veteran comedian Ali Baba has sent out a strong
message to ladies who make the fathers of their kids look like evil people.
Ali Baba has reached to women who are aggrieved with their
husbands or ex-husbands and in the process, try to make the men look like
terrible people.
In a lengthy note he penned on his Instagram page, the
comedian advised the hurting mothers to allow the fathers of their kids show
the children love no matter what.
He wrote: "Very often, you will see ladies who make the
fathers of their children look like monsters. The said father may be the best
father the child ever wished for, but, the mothers' hurt will not let the
fathers have the opportunity to show the child that love. Many years ago, a
certain wife of a Nigerian career diplomat, posted to East Africa, had a messy
and sour marriage. It was a very popular case.
"The woman resorted to making sure she flung all kinds
of dirt at the Diplomat. She even asked the Nigerian Government to recall him
and dismiss him. While she was all out to ruin him. She forgot that her
children were depending on their father's support to make a headway in life.
The Solomonic dilemma came to play again. If I can't have him, then let me mess
his career up.
"The truth is that if you think about it, the only time
it's ok, to deny the father of your child access to the child and by so doing,
denying the father an opportunity to play a role in the child's life, BECAUSE
YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH THE FATHER, you are using your reggae to spoil the child's
blues. No one stops you from being upset. And indeed, no one can stop you from
venting. But if in the process of doing that vexing, don't let that mess up the
relationship the child will have with the father.
"In summary, If you know you cannot give the child or
children, the kind of life they deserve, and you know the father can give them,
all they need, don't block their access to him. But if you can do better than
him, ignore the guy and move on.
"Don't give yourself unnecessary pressure. If the
father has and can give, don't block him from being the father. You can do more
with all the assistance. Even if you are Oprah Winfrey"
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