Although no relationship is totally
flawless and many embattled couples and ex-lovers have often reconciled their
differences, there is no doubt that ill-fated relationships have a few things
in common.
At some point, it might seem
easier to end a relationship when the tides are not right but partners often
times remain undecided and resilient, not knowing what signs could mean it’s
time they called it quits.
Here are five tell-tale signs
your relationship is not working and might just be doomed.
Persistent quarrels
Conflict of interests, arguments
and quarrels are a normal thing in relationship but when these become
irreconcilable, where the partners in question resort to physical violence and
constant fights, then there are chances the relationship is not working.
On the contrary, partners in any
promising relationship should be able to recognize, respect their differences
and reconcile conflicting opinions when they arise – not criticize and hurl
verbal missiles at each other.
Communication gaps
Promising lovers should be able
to bypass communication gaps and have heart-to-heart conversations without
either of the two greeting such scenario with disinterest or rapt attention.
But when one of the couples
dreads the others presence and puts up a barrier that makes the other feel
uneasy when broaching intimidate conversations, portrays un-communicated
disinterest or is only passively attentive, then chances are that the
relationship might not last.
Conflict of interest
Not being able to arrive at a
unanimous opinion with your partner on issues that bother on the relationship,
where you both find it difficult to reconcile interests, is not typical of a
promising relationship.
Perhaps, it’s a situation where
one of the parties has to defiantly impose their opinion with the other having
to oblige without acceding to such. Then, the end might be imminent.
Lack of trust
Asides communication, trust is
one of the strongholds on which promising relationships are erected. Have you
always had a hunch about your partner not being faithful?
Perhaps you can’t confide in them
to keep bone-chilling secrets about you or often feel they might undoubtedly
betray your trust someday. Such feelings might indeed be a bad sign.
Nothing seems to work
Has one or both partners
portrayed disinterest in salvaging the relationship? Have you sought the
service of a third party on a number of occasions but nothing seems to change
the status quo?
Perhaps you have tried a therapy
session that left you with nothing but a sick feeling in you stomach. Chances
are that the relationship might not work and calling it quits could be the last
resort.
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