As a woman in a budding
relationship, knowing when your man is well into you might not be such a
difficult thing.
He would often blurt out to his
friends how amazing his girl is and would possibly not spare an opportunity to
spoil you. He would always want to visit or put a call across to you even for
the silliest reasons.
However, knowing when he’s not
interested might not be as easy since most men have a penchant for being
reserved; covert; and sometimes unreadable, especially when it comes to
relationships.
Here are six signs that your
man is not really interested in you.
He avoids intimacy and physical
contact
Avoiding intimate discussions and
physical contact are common ways of showing non-commitment by men.
If you’re always the one doing
all the talking during discussions and he often gives indifferent affirmations,
the ‘hmms and ahs’, then watch out. Perhaps he’s not really digging you.
He’s not inquisitive about you
When your man incessantly bombs
you with questions about your personal life, it’s a sign he’s interested in you
and wants to know more about you.
When it’s the other way around,
when your hubby only talks about himself with very little or no interest in
what’s going on with you, then maybe he’s not so interested in you after all.
He’s not making advances
Here’s another sign he’s not
interested in you–when he’s not making advances, he’s not asking you out on
dates or to have one-on-one moments.
When a man is truly interested in
the lady in any relationship, he would latch onto her and ache to have personal
moments with her as often as he can to keep the relationship on track.
But when that isn’t the case for
you, when the relationship is progressing in a juiceless manner, then there are
chances you are ‘walking alone’.
Ignoring signals
A popular non-verbal behaviour
that is communicative of disinterest among the male folks in any budding or
potential relationship is the failure to reciprocate clear signals from their
female folks.
A man’s body language readily
tells if he’s into you but in cases where these non-verbal signals are coming
from only you, and your hubby fails to reciprocate them, then it’s safe to
assume he’s not interested in you after all.
He avoids one-on-one moments
Your man is probably not
interested in you if he is in the habit of evading personal moments with you.
Perhaps he tells you he has an
urgent family issue to rectify or suddenly receives emergency calls when faced
with an alone time with you.
More obvious is when you have a
feeling he’s seeking the company of his friends just to prevent you from having
personal moments with him.
He’s too busy for you
Men in any meaningful
relationship have a penchant for being ‘crazy’ about their partners that they
would go an extra mile to make time for their girl even amid busy schedules.
In cases when they are genuinely
busy, they would always put obviously needless calls to their lovers over any
slightest reason, just to keep in touch.
However, when your man is often
too busy to keep up with you or is in the habit of being out of contact for
days, then he’s obviously not interested in you or any romantic relationship
you have to offer.
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