So many people were surprised
when the wedding pictures of the self acclaimed musical Taliban, Oritsefemi went
viral. Some even went as far as believing it was for a music video simply
because the singer opted for a quiet court wedding.
Talking about his marriage in a
chat with Saturday Beats, the singer said that it always upsets him
when he hears that lack of sex leads to the failure of some marriages in
Nigeria. Using himself as an example, he said that he can never deprive his
wife of sex and advised other married men to emulate him.
He said, “Marriage is something
that you have to be very diplomatic about. You have to be very careful and know
what you are doing because it has its ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Some people think that marriage is all about money but it is not. It takes God
and the couple to understand each other. Some people talk about cheating in
marriage and that is why I sang in my song, ‘Igbeyawo,’ that women should not
starve their husband of sex. If you do that, it would bring problems in your
home. I don’t want lack of sex to be a problem in my marriage. Any time my wife
wants to have sex, I would always give it to her, at any time.
“Sex should not be the problem.
Money could cause problems but don’t let sex be the problem. Get close to your
wife and try to understand when she needs it. As a wife, you also need to know
when your husband needs to have sex. It pains me when I hear that lack of sex
is the cause of some people’s marital crisis. I would rather hear a woman say
that she wants her husband to work harder.”
The singer told Saturday
Beats that he kept his court wedding to himself because he was involved in
a lot of controversies at that time. He further hinted that his white wedding
which is coming up in November would be an amazing experience.
“I kept my court wedding
under wraps because I was in a lot of controversies during that period and I
was also trying to work on my management. I was working on my brand image as
well. My wife is a very private person and if we had made it public, it would
have worked against us because sometimes when you share information like this,
anything can happen. I tried as much as possible to keep it to myself
especially because my wife loves her privacy. It was my idea to make it private
and when I spoke to my wife about it, she agreed. At the end of the day, the
information still leaked. I am still going to have an elaborate white wedding
in Nigeria on November 25. I could have decided to do the wedding outside
Nigeria but I am a man of the people. When I got to the event centre, I told
them that I would be expecting at least 2,000 people but they told me that they
believe that at least 3,000 people would be at the wedding, so they volunteered
to cater for the other 1,000 people that may come for the wedding free of
charge. My wedding is going to be amazing and it would be strictly by
invitation. I already have a song about wedding and people would want me to
perform on my wedding day but I would do something different,” he said.
The Mr. Gomina singer who already
has two children from two women explained how his wife has been able to unite
the family. “There is one great thing I love about my wife, she is very
respectful. If you respect people, they would return the same gesture. I love
her for the fact that she has the ability to unite my family. Whenever she is
talking to my baby mamas, she respects them and they respect her in return. She
takes care of my two children as if they are hers. She takes them to school and
even represents them if need be. She advises them and she is so supportive. She
is hard working. Although she has her Master’s degree from a school in London,
she is also full of ideas. She is someone I can talk to about some business
ideas and she would listen and understand,” he said.
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