As Comedian/Motivational speaker, Alibaba, shared via
Instagram this morning.
"People who have only sex to offer are the ones who get
jealous, suspicious and quarrelsome. You know why? Because they know that you
might go out one day and find someone who has more than sex to offer. So what
does that leave them? So they start to put their spouse in the defensive.
Go take a critical look at most of those relationships where
the guy or babe has only one thing to offer, they will keep talking of
security. They want reassurances always. Tell me you love. Promise you will not
leave me. Are you sure you are not playing with me? Am I the only one in your
life? Do you really love me? Are you tired of this relationship? Do you still
love me? .... blah blah blah! When all you have is a hammer everything is a
nail. That is what sums up these kind of people. That explains why they get so
angry when you are away from them for so long. Their only stake in the
relationships needs to be activated regularly to remain relevant in the scheme
of things and in their spouses thoughts.
"That also explains why many who marry because the sex
is good, find out later that good sex doesn't pay bills. Neither does it cook,
run the home, guarantee respect, make your spouse a person you can rub minds
with and not skin. You see you may not know it, but I will tell you, you may be
extremely beautiful. That is good. But like sex, if that beauty is all there is
to you, in the relationship, the day that beauty is discounted by someone else
who has brain and beauty body and cooking skills, with a good dose of home
management, last last na modeling agency go need you. So you are a guy, and all
you have in your value proposition brief case is muscles. Hiaaaaam. No common
sense. Nothing else. So Iet's look at the sex sef... after a while, its
bargaining value in the relationships could diminish. When that happens what
will be your new bargaining chip? Same goes for cash. I know a top society lady
who married a big time Lagos big boy, when she knew he was in bad times, she
vamoosed! And went to kids for another man. How could she? She could, and she
did. Some people too, if the marry you because of your Dad's political office,
when the term of office is running out, they run out too."
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Nice talk my brother.
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