The moment when you declare your love to your partner can be regarded as
the most important milestone in your romantic story. Although these are only
simple three words, people are afraid of saying them.
If you love somebody, you should shout about it
from the rooftops or at least say “I love you” to your partner. It sounds
rather romantic but in reality, you should choose the right moment to say these
words to the object of your love.It’s a really important issue if you plan marrying
a Russian girl!
The timing is extremely important. If a man declares his love to a woman
already on a first date, she’ll think he’s desperate or insincere because this
is way too soon. Very often, partners don’t need words because their actions
speak volumes about their feelings. Still, it’s good when actions are supported
by words, especially if they are so long-awaited and desired.
It’s always easier for a woman to understand that
a man has feelings for her since men don’t resort to hints and subtle signs but
act directly to show their affection. They ask a woman out on romantic dates,
give flowers, pay compliments, send sweet messages, etc. However, women often
wrack their brains over the true intentions of a man. They want to make sure that
he does all these beautiful things because he is really interested in them, not
because he wants to get them into bed.
Previous Preparations
Be ready for
rejection. The odds your declaration will be returned are 50/50, so you should
assume both positive and negative answer in advance. You need to take the right
attitude to it. Just say these words because you want to. If your date can’t
say the same, then keep searching for the one who will.
Accept any
reaction.Although your woman secretly expects to hear these words from you, your
declaration will always come as a surprise. You need to keep that in mind.
Think what
you’ll say. It’s a good idea to prepare your speech in advance. We know how
nervousness can leave at a loss for words, so think it over beforehand. Since
you have those words in mind, try to sound sincere not as if you rehearsed it
many times.
How to Find the
Right Moment
There is a simple rule: you shouldn’t declare your love too soon and you
shouldn’t delay it. Those words have a magic power – they turn you into a couple
and bring your relationship to another level. Think twice before saying “I love
you”. Give yourself some time to figure out whether your feelings are strong
and real. If you’re not ready to say these very words at the initial stage of
your relationship but you want to express your feelings in some way, there is a
good alternative. You can say “I’m serious about you” or “I want to be with
you”.
Here is how you can understand your confession will be timely:
- · You’ve been on more than 5 dates
- · You know for sure your feeling are reciprocal
- · You’ve already had sex
There are also some reasons why you should postpone your declaration of
love:
- · Your relationship has just started
- · Your date is not very enthusiastic about your relationship
- · Your girlfriend is not focused exclusively on you since she flirts with other guys
- · She doesn’t reveal her feelings
When it comes to declaring love, pay attention to how you do it. Be
serious when saying those words. Even if smile is your protective response, try
to control your mimics and gestures. Otherwise, your loved one will think
you’re kidding.
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