Bello has said a Muslim man will be doing himself more harm by marrying just one wife, but instead he will advise such a man to start with two. He made this known in one of his lectures titled Legal Marriage.
He said: “Allah said a man should marry any kind of woman he likes. As a man, if you want to marry a fair-complexioned or dark woman, marry her. Allah said we should start from two women. I know women will not like to hear this. If you have to marry, start with two women, which is what the Quran says. The Yorubas have a saying that a man with one woman isn’t a real man. For instance, if you are married to one wife and she over-salts your food, you have just one wife. You don’t have a choice than to eat the food or buy food outside.
“I have received so many messages from people that why should I encourage polygamy. I tell them, is it me encouraging polygamy? Allah said you should marry two, three, four. Allah said if as a man you know you can’t take care of them, then marry one. Then if you are a me and my wife kind of man, the implications are too many. As Muslims, four women is the maximum a man can have, have two living with you then if you have two houses outside, you put the other two there. The implications in marrying just one wife are too many.” Click to signup for FREE news updates, latest information and hottest gists everyday
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Typical Nigerian, giving ambiguous excuse - talking of the last sentence. Can he please list 3 of the implications of marrying only one wife?
ReplyDeleteI prefer One Woman one problem but there's problem for us that way truly.
DeleteLet's look at it from this Angle. Everybody knows that the Population Ratio of Woman to Man is very High and that way, marrying one will be (inward thinking) Risk to Us because if we give Birth to a Female Child we expect her to Marry.
It is Logical but Very Simple to Understand...
Many Married Men still have Girlfriends and take care of her Secretly meaning He can Marry her and reduce Adultery but we Run away from Truth...
Pls encourage it for someone that is Capable of doing instead of Deceiving ourselves.
He reasons like a child.
ReplyDeleteThis massage is only for muslim fateful from the Holy Qur'an. So unnecessary comments are not needed here. Respect others fate.
ReplyDeleteMany Men of GOD (Abraham, Jacob, David and the likes) do such thing.
DeleteWhat's ur own view about that and Why can't they Marry one?
Foolish man you're not current the maximum limit is 7 wives both on earth and in heaven if only you can get there.
ReplyDeleteHahaha with this Buhari recession marry two to four wives na war o OK let Buhari leave 2019 Pls ask the scholar what of the man with about 87 ko 97 wives in Minna Niger state is that what the Quran says
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