Besides, the governor and his family gave scholarship Bright Ifije, the son of the widow in his education in order to help the family. The N2million was given to her to a rent a shop and set up a business so as to resist the temptation of selling along the walkways in future.
Oshiomhole and the family of the widow reconciled Monday during a breakfast meeting, where the governor reiterated his earlier apology to the woman following his outburst at her, which he confessed was as a result of anger from the way traders and drivers are frustrating the state government’s efforts to beautify Benin City.
Madam Ifije who knelt down to express her gratitude to the governor, said her actions on the said day was not intentional and pledged to join the state government in its campaign to ensure sanity and orderliness in the city.
While addressing Madam Ifije who was accompanied to Government House by her sister Patience Ajayi and the landlord, Mr Omobude Osakpanwa, Oshiomhole said he was sincerely sorry for the uncomplimentary words he used against the widow, adding that it was as a result of his passion to see that sanity returns in the city.
According to him, “my anger was that when I saw you blocking the road I said if your blocking the road do you want people to be killed and you said you are a widow and I said if you want other people to be killed. I am sure you know that we don’t want accidents on our roads and that was why we built the walk ways so that pedestrians will have their way and vehicles will have their way.
“Because we still find people abandon the markets to come and sale on the walkways blocking the road and you find out that the expansion that we have done, some time out of six lanes you find out that only two are functioning. They just block one of the roads, while buses will block another part of the road and there will be serious traffic.
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“That was why I said to you if you are a widow do you want more people to be widows, but when I said go and die, I was really touched that I said that to you because I understand that looking at you, you are struggling but I was really angry but I realized that even at anger I can achieve the same result without talking to you the way that I did.
Drinking tea with the governor few days after she was told to 'Go and die" |
He further urged the widow to “assist me to talk to traders first to keep our roads clean, not to block on roads so that people walking, people walking can have the roads free. The state government will employ you to do this job for us and we will give you all the assistance you need”.
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“The Governor who announced the job offer to the woman, in addition to a N2 million grant for her to get a shop and trade, said during a breakfast meeting with her at the Government House, yesterday, that her job would be to join State’s War Against Indiscipline in the campaign against street trading and to keep the state clean.”Click to signup for FREE news updates, latest information and hottest gists everyday
The Governor who again apologised to the widow said “when you put your things on the road a vehicle can run into you and they have killed some people like that and that was why I said if you are a widow do you want more people to be widowed? But when I said go and die, that one was said in a fit of anger. And I am really sorry”, he said.
“I want you to join us. We would employ you and pay you salary. You would help us to campaign to other women not to trade on road sides. We should not use poverty as a yardstick. We would also talk to taxi and bus drivers not to block roads when carrying passengers”, Oshiomhole said.
“You will assist me to talk to women and traders not to litter the roads and sidewalks so that people walking and driving can have free road. If they want to park they can park properly so as not to disturb others.”
The Governor said government was trying to change Benin City from its old status adding “as you can see Benin is becoming a modern city. So you join us now and every month you begin to get salary so that you can look after your children”.
“For your child who is preparing to enter into the university, my daughters and myself have agreed to support him. If he does well as we pray he does, he would assist the family. Maybe this is the way God wants it. That is why I asked them to look for you so that I can personally offer my apology, but also to support you, so that God helping you, you can overcome the pain of widowhood”, he said.
“As a single mother I want to see how I can help you to train your children and God can use any of them to become a leader of our country. Please resist the temptation to do anything that would break the law. The law is the law; it is no respecter of persons. If Government does not enforce the law there would be confusion”, he remarked.
The Governor who gave the woman a cash gift of N2 million said “in addition to working with the War Against Indiscipline, I am also giving you the sum of two million naira so that you can hire a shop, trade inside the shop and not roadside and I pray that God will bless your decision on how you utilize the money. This money is not for you to share or distribute but to help you as a working capital”.
Responding, the widow, Mrs Joy Ifijeh thanked the Governor for the gesture and promised that she would be part of the fight to keep the City clean.
She apologized to the Governor for blocking the road with her wares, saying she recognized that what she did was wrong but she did not know that the Governor was on inspection that day.
According to her, she had been a victim of theft by a truck pusher who went away with her goods, a week before her encounter with the Governor, that was why she was on the road with her goods that day as she no longer trusted truck pushers not to do away with her goods.
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Now he has apologised...shame don catch devil as usual..God gives grace to the humble!
ReplyDeleteSir are you trying to clean the faeces you passed already. anyway kudos for repenting from your sin
ReplyDeleteA brave Leader that you are..Always ready to accept your fault, and remedies it. This is not common with our todays leaders, who will rather defend their mistakes, instead of correcting it. Well done boo, I dey your side. Carry go
ReplyDeleteThat is God for you his ways are unlike ours. See how he answers this widows prayers. Just like he did prophet Yusuf AS (Joseph) and OBJ i.e. Obasanjo.. Tanx Gov Adams pls next time chew your words before uttering them.
ReplyDeleteWell done governor.That is leadership by example.Where are the critics now
ReplyDeleteThe governor of Edo State is a true democrat. Shame unto these people who intend the episode to bring his office down. Thank you Adams and keep up the good work!
ReplyDeleteThe governor of Edo State is a true democrat. Shame unto these people who intend the episode to bring his office down. Thank you Adams and keep up the good work!
ReplyDeletePDP wnt to capitalised on dis issue to turn people of edo against the governor..bt thnk GOD d governor did very well..more grease to ur elbow baba..so PDP wht next for nw..every reasonable nigerian knws dt what former ACN nw APC see as the worst is the best for PDP since 1999 PDP hs bn rulin dis country but no development nigeria only movin backward..prove me wrong ememy of progress..
ReplyDeleteDis is a good step on Oshiomole side.but please work on ur anger so dis will not reoccur again.
ReplyDeleteIndeed the Governor has done a great thing not by giving the money but the humility and a good heart of repentance he has shown to the widow and to Edo people in general.
ReplyDeleteNobody is above mistake...thank God for you Mr Governor for this humility
ReplyDeleteGood Luck to the widow. At least your case is nothing but a provocation at the Hedge of breakthrough.
Many are being insulted daily without anything to show for it, but see how God has bless you through the insults.
I really thank God for you. Shame of the Devil
madam,ur travail in de hand of ur oppressors has brought u joy.dats hw God want to giv u ur own national cake.chima
ReplyDeleteCampaign don start, let another pdp man give 5Million naira, stupid people.
ReplyDeleteGo and give money so that people will be encouraged to do bad things.
let other governors and public officers emulate humility from gov. oshiomhole..
ReplyDeletePoor widow,this is how GOD chose to relief you of your burdens but only few among the wise will understan. And for mr Adam,as a governor and a public figure you need to be more wise and more matured as not to give your opponent a room for critics
ReplyDeleteI beg Governor, please talk to me any how and give me 2million. Please tell me to go to hell and give me money. I am waiting please.
ReplyDeleteYour comment has already made my day. Laugh wan scatter my mouth! Shuooo!!!
DeleteLooool, the set time for God to favour that widow has come..am happy for her...
DeleteDs whole go and die saga is completely nauseating to me...smh. m not moved by any exchange of gifts or scholarship.its jst d negativ publicity caused by d video goin viral dat adams is tryin to remove. Its not empathy for d widow or anythin like dat. But as a politician hes played his card pretty well tho..
ReplyDeleteThis is humility per excellence.APC can fix nigeria,we are all human,let's kick jonathan and his cohorts out of office come 2015 and experience real development,progressives are on the prowl.
ReplyDeleteWho will not apologise under such political heat that gas been brought on him. Common.
ReplyDeleteOsho baba I hail u o!!!
ReplyDeleteWho's money did he give to her?
ReplyDeleteThe widow looks very young Oshiomole why not consider marrying her?
ReplyDeleteGOD has a way of blessing pple. dis is d widow time of divine visitation.God , a miracle worker.
ReplyDeleteKudos 2 osho 4 realizing his misdeeds on tyme!but mr Governor must try to manage his anger,U are a leader,u shld b careful wit d way u choose ur words!
ReplyDeleteIt's God at work. His ways are not our ways. He has chosen to answer the woman's prayer by positioning her in that place at the time and causes the spirit of anger to descend on the governor. We are mere tools in His hands. Congratulations Mr. Governor for allowing yourself to be used by Him.
ReplyDeleteAm I smelling a David and Abigail here?lol just saying .... Odun Tutu
ReplyDeleteThere are some bad elements who will never see any good thing in the good others exhibit. Only God is infallible the disposition of the governor is a direct manifestation of spirit of humility which some of the critics cannot dispense. God bless governor.
ReplyDeleteYou are right Delola. Indeed, It's God's at work though politician can be funny.
ReplyDeleteYou are right Delola. Indeed, It's God's at work though politician can be funny.
ReplyDeleteOnce toothpaste has been squeezed out of its tube, it can never be returned. Nevertheless, to err is human, to forgive divine.
ReplyDeleteNigerians are so funny! A good thing the Governor retracted his steps at least he was moved by the outburst and out cry, some leaders would still not care, but to say that it is God that caused the Governor to act so rashly damn let us be reasonable Nigerians wake up!
ReplyDeleteIndeed, God works in a mysterious way. Thank you Lord for turning this WIDOW'S mourning to dancing.
ReplyDeleteas a people pleaser one can do anything ....lol
ReplyDeleteYes on the widow's part its Gods work, but is the Governor sorry for his actions or sorry he was publicly criticised? Knowing that elections are coming soon now used it as a campaign tool. He's a public figure and @ all times act with decorum, let's call a spade what it is.
ReplyDelete"Go and Die Governor", so you were waiting for people to start shouting before you do something. Well sha, you did well
ReplyDeleteGood that Gov. Adams apologised for using unkind words on the widow, sometime ago, Gov. Akpabio said he personally cancelled the name of the authentic winner of a senatorial primaries election in his state and replaced the name with another person who happens to be a senator now and he even asked him to take a bow and all that the arrogant PDP people could do was to start offering explanations and reinterpretation of what he meant. They are so proud. Look at Stella Odua who should be apologising to the whole country and even the presidency which should be apologising to all of us for eating our country down to her bone marrow. Let Nigerians be wise and choose responsible leader who will be accountable to them and take responsibility even when things go wrong. May God bless Nigeria!
ReplyDeleteMay Almighty Allah give us grace to exercise patience when needed!
ReplyDeleteGod gave our dear gov the spirit of error on that day just to bless the widow, ordinarily it is unexpected for a person like the comrade gov to make such remarks. however , kudos to the gov for been humble enough to apologise.God bless Edo state & Nigeria.- SAM.
ReplyDeleteOshiomole, I pray that God will give you a great opportunity to live long in this world. This story makes me weep and tears are running down my cheeks as I am writing now. I have known you to be a good man. If the statement you uttered to this woman on that day was a true reflection of your identity, then you would have said this many times since you became a governor five years ago. I knew something went wrong and that I could not understand because I knew you must have faced terrible things and people that angered you in the past but you never made such inflammatory statement. Now you said your daughters harassed you on behalf of the woman. What does this tell the world about Oshiomoles? It shows you are a good father who has nurtured his family very well. I am very impressed with the way you handled this issue, though am not surprised. I believe God designed it to be like this. God actually made you go out on that day for an inspection to meet this woman and say what you said. Because if this woman had come to you for help, I doubt if she would be blessed like this. God is great and I'll continue to adore and worship Him. How many leaders listen to God and people? And that's why they regret their lives during and after offices. God bless Governor Oshiomole and his family. Please let us all emulate good things and make atonement for our sins.
ReplyDeleteAll of u hav forgotten dat d widow was breaking d law. D law is supposed to be no respectrr of person "widow included" now yall crucify d guv for using bad words. Dats y dat country has so much problem cus evrybody acts wit impunity wen it comes to obeying d laws.
ReplyDeleteDebola, Good comment from you, I love your world. You are the only one that use the right world on this issue, that shows you know GOD as I do know him. People forgot that for every blessing that comes to us, GOD has cause it to happen through some one he has choosen. So that his name will be glorified. Well Debola....!
ReplyDeleteThe verdict has been reversed in your favor Mr. Governor. Go and sin no-more. Enjoy your tenure and family.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is a LAW BREAKER, Oshomole did the right thing by taken ownership castigating her but with the WRONG WORDS he now added insult to the injury by rewarding a LAW BREAKER encouraging more people to destroy the good infastructure he is trying to provide in Benin that PDP couldn't do in Nine years......
ReplyDeleteThe man Governor Oshiohole has been a man I love and admire. Right from the time he was a labour leader he has been a man that negotiates for the poor. He has been a good and understanding man. When he became a governor I was happy for him. I said he deserved it. But when I read about what he said I didn't condemn him rather I condemned what he said because I know he is a human being. He is not an angel. And now he has corrected his mistake in a big way. My suggestion is that he marries the woman. The woman looks like a good woman and she is pretty. The governor is a widower and the woman is a widow. Maybe that is how God wanted to bring them together.
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