Hey Ladies, I know you all like dissecting what’s going on with your men and honestly that is cool but what isn’t cool is when you start asking all or any of the 4 questions below.
By the way, have you ever realized how
angry a man can get when you ask too many questions at a time? When it
comes to relationships, most women want to know everything that a man is
thinking.
But here is the truth and from a man’s
perspective, there are 4 questions I think women should really avoid
asking their men while in a relationship because the answers you get are
basically those aimed at pleasing you but not the whole TRUTH.
1: Do I look fat?
Most men have learned that the answer to
this question is always NO. Always. No exceptions. Women and weight
have too close of a bond and women often define themselves and their
worth by the scale. Therefore, men are prepared and ready to say, “No,
you look beautiful!” no matter what. If a woman really cares about
looking fat, she should look in the mirror and decide for herself. If
she feels great, then no need to ask for affirmation. But the
attention-seeking woman might be desperate for compliments and turn to
her man for her fix. It’s most important to be healthy, no matter what
the scale says… Ladies!
2: What happened in your past relationships?
Some women become obsessed with finding
out everything about their man’s past. They need to know if they measure
up to ex-girlfriends or wives, if he’s as happy with them as he was
before and if he’s really over a past heartbreak. You might be
especially concerned about what went wrong with your guy’s previous
relationships. Remember, though, he might have been a very different man
then, and he probably learned from his mistakes. Try not to hold his
past wrongs against him because chances are he doesn’t want to be
reminded of them. He doesn’t want you to see him in a bad light. Let him
be the person he is now. Let him feel good about how he is with you,
and not dragged through memories of what he did (or didn’t do) with
other partners. Of course it’s important to communicate, but too much
probing shows a lack of trust and confidence in your relationship.
3: Are you attracted to other women?
This comes down to self-esteem (and
therefore attention) and confidence in your relationship. A man who
doesn’t look at anyone or feel anything for other women is either very
old, very tired, or just plain lying. Looking at and responding to
others doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t find you desirable or is
comparing you. Of course too much gawking or staring is inappropriate,
are you going to tell me you’ve never glanced at an attractive guy? We
are all humans. If he takes it to the next level and starts to flirt,
however, he’s definitely not fully committed to you and its time to
reevaluate your relationship.
4: What are you thinking?
This question usually comes up in a
moment of silence, and often times while in bed. Some women want to make
sure that a man is thinking only of them in bed, but this is a very
complicated question for a guy. Make sure you can tolerate hearing about
what’s going on in your man’s mind, and remember not to assume he
doesn’t care about you. You might be amazed when he answers “oh, just
the football game yesterday.” Men’s minds can wonder to multiple
subjects, while women tend to concentrate on the activity at hand and
analyze every detail. Relax and take your man’s answer for what it is.
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