Early Marriage? By Zainab Shinkafi-Bagudu
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Monday, July 22, 2013
Here is one of the most informed articles since the debate on child marriage broke. It is a trending post on Nasir El-Rufai’s Facebook wall.
A virus is a small infectious agent replicates only inside the living cells.Viruses infect all types of organisms, from animals and plants to bacteria. Since 1892 when Dmitri Ivanovsky described a non-bacterial pathogen infecting tobacco about 5,000 viruses have been described in detail,they can be found in every ecosystem on Earth and are the most abundant type of biological entity.
Of late, virus have found a heavenly host in the Nigerian social media network.
In minutes,a concept can go viral,permeating every corner of the world.This trend can be greatly beneficial,but also deadly dangerous. On this particular occasion I find it dangerous. In the last 48hrs, there has been an outcry on social media about a bill in the Nigerian Senate to legalise child marriage. The bone of contention simply ‘ Instead, they gave a legislative seal of approval for the marriage of underage girls. That means even a 5 year old toddler could be married off by her parents’ Pro ported to be pushed by Senator Yerima Ahmed Sani,the former governor of Zamfara state,the institutor of sh aria law and admittedly a colourful and controversial figure. There is no reference to where this legislative seal lies.
Which section of which constitution. All that is going round is an advocacy outcry and anti child marriage logos. If this rage against the so called amendment legalising child marriage is to remind us of Yerima’s marriage to an Egyptian girl a few years ago then let us clearly say so. Again if the aim is to create awareness against child marriage then kudos again but let us be clear. But to mix up the two issues is mischievous and unnecessary.
Unfortunately it seems as a nation we delight in criticizing actions taken by leadership blindly,without objective use of glaring facts. The debate on the constitutional amendment was televised nationally. The senate sittings are documented daily. The votes and proceeding document is a legal document produced and available to the public. Unlike the British constitution that’s unwritten, ours is written clearly and available to buy on most street corners. So anyone that can read the english language access and analyze what and what happened. Instead, majority of us are just copying pasting and broadcasting a misleading and inciting message. What is upsetting to me personally now is that this ‘us’ that are spreading the stop the child marriage message can read. We graduated from the best primary schools and obtained degrees from an era when universities that didn’t go on endless strikes.
So ‘WE’ have no right to be spreading messages without at the very least verifying what the true situation is. I have received at least 10 of the message. Directed against the Nigerian senate and Ahmed Sani in particular. I am certain also certain that all of these 10 people can read, possess TVs and internet subscriptions that enables them access past events and most of all do not have up to six degrees of separation from the legislators that can easily explain what the issue is. The danger of this is obvious. We are living in divisive times when suddenly every Nigerian is acutely aware of being muslim or christian,being Urobo or Kanuri. Feelings that certainly didn’t exist in my formative years but are glaring in my twilight ones.
The issue is one split in two. Chapter 3 covers citizenship of Nigeria. Chapter 3 clause 26 relates to attaining whilst Chapter 3 clause29 relates to renouncing Nigerian citizenship.
As it is, the law allows foreign wives to obtain Nigerian citizenship via marriage; Chapter 3clause(26)(a). Conversely, if a Nigerian woman marries a foreign man, he does not automatically get the right to apply for Nigerian citizenship. That gender discrimination was considered in the ongoing review by the current lawmakers. The votes and proceedings paper of Tuesday 16th July 2013 show the senators voted to replace the word woman for person. A less discriminatory word and giving Nigerian women the power to grant her husband citizenship of her country also.
The second issue and probably the more pertinent one is the Renouncement of Nigerian citizenship. This is what is being erroneously broadcast. Chapter 3 Section 29(1) of the Nigerian constitution states that to renounce citizenship, one must be of full age. Subsection 4 goes further to define full age as a) 18yrs and above and b) woman who is married shall be deemed to be of full age.
The 2013 review sought to remove the second qualifier. That is a married woman. On the surface, it didn’t seem to make sense to differentiate in that manner as in the earlier section 26. Not until Senator Ahmed Sani pointed out the historic reason for this.
Whilst 18years is generally accepted as the age of maturity in most cultures Islamic law is not as clearly stated. Maturity in Islam is measured in various ways. One of which is marriage. Thus a married woman, (and NOT a 5year old) is deemed mature enough to make a decision to renounce her citizenship of Nigeria. Furthermore, in 1979,the lawmakers led by late Aminu Kano of PRP felt the age 18 years used was an arbitrary western concept of maturity. The legislators in 1979 at the time agreed to the PRP argument and it was included.
Even in the west, standards are adjusted to suit the welfare of all citizens. In the USA for instance, a 14year old that gets pregnant and has a child is eligible to social benefits,including housing, even though she cannot vote. So in her welfare,she is treated as an adult and provided safe home for herself and her child.
Last week, when Senator Ahmed Sani pointed out the same reason and sought not to remove the married woman clause. The senators voted 60 ayes to 35nos and thus the constitution will remain as it is assuming the bill that will eventually be brought from this is passed. A minimum of 72(one third) votes are required for any amendment to pass. The nays and abstains do not matter. This amendment had 60,and thus failed.
Both times, relating to section 26 and 29, the lawmakers voted in a manner that carried along gender and religion; a reflection of why each of us has a senator representing our interests. Nothing in the proceedings indicate age of marriage or how a legislative seal was given to child or even adult marriage as is being circulated in the messages going around.
Because I have mentioned Islamic law and maturity, I will mention one more point. I mention it to balance,not to start a religious debate. What is the age of competence for marriage? I am not an expert in Islamic jurisprudence, so I cannot go further than I have. However in the 12th century, the age for marriage without parental consent was set by the Roman Catholic church, a ruling which remains unchanged. For females it is 12 years and for males it is 14 years. Conversely in Islam, a 20year female old can not get married without the consent of her parents. Agreed Nigerian laws are neither Islamic or catholic. Instead the laws are guided by these major religions and native laws and customs. If we feel the need to put more clarity in this has come, then let us say so and do so in the proper way. Over the last year,each legislator has had constituency meetings on the ongoing constitutional amendments. This was stepped up to the Zonal groupings where each zone took a stand on the various issues. We had ample time to make submissions to amend our constitution. Anyone who didn’t do so at the time has no moral justification to take to twitter and facebook lamblasting imaginary changes in our laws.
Yerima’s fault on this occasion might also be in his timing. As a member of the current constitutional review committee, he had ample time to bring the issue to the table and stop it being included on the recommended change that was debated on Tuesday. But that is Yerima. That is his way. You can love him or hate him, that is another matter.
All I am saying here is,let us be careful in our expressing our sentiments and use social media to unite Nigeria unshakably, instead of ripping her apart bit by bit. Till there are no 5year olds left to marry even if Yerima wanted to.
Dr. Zainab Shinkafi-Bagudu is MD Medicaid Radio-Diagnostics, Aminu Kano Cresent, Wuse 2 Abuja Click to signup for FREE news updates, latest information and hottest gists everyday
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Mcheeew beautiful nonsense
ReplyDeletehmmmm...
ReplyDeleteDid Yerima give out any of his Daugther out as underage marriage. Checkout u discover that his Daugther is schoolling abroad wicked people God wil judge u.
ReplyDeleteThis Zinab is not a rational person.
DeletePlease speak for yourself. I have read the constitution and the Senate voted twice,the first time they voted to amend more than 72 votes which met the required 2/3rds of the house needed to pass the motion. However your beloved senator lobbied and our Senate president foolishly called for a second vote. If we are being sincere why can't we define full age as 18 years and leave it as that? You speak of welfare in England.the teenage girl who gets pregnant is given welfare NOT because she is seen as an adult but conversely because she as a "non-adult" would obviously not be able to get a job to support her child.the welfare is not for the teenager but for the baby. Let us be fair and civilised, a man who married a 13 or is it 14yr old girl is campaigning for non-amendment of a constitution that defines full age as being married. Who is fooling who???? If the Senate could vote twice then in the spirit of democracy,they can vote w third or fourth time. Thanks.
DeleteJesus! Sorry I did not reply this idiot in a proper way and am bk to do justice to that else he sees me as one among the people he refered to in his publication as copying and spreading info on social media without verifying our sources which is y I will not go out side his write up but from it and I quote "Even in the west, standards are adjusted to suit the welfare of all citizens. In the USA for instance, a 14year old that gets pregnant and has a child is eligible to social benefits,including housing, even though she cannot vote. So in her welfare,she is treated as an adult and provided safe home for herself and her child.
DeleteNow tell me hw many of our underage girls that have a childern are given social benefit, it has never been a practice in nigeria but our legislators wud have tot of such laws first. It is indeed a starting point for this girls. Second from the above quote I did not see where it ended that after social benifits were made available to this girls the trend has not stopped so the west as removed or included in their constitution wether written or unwritten that this girls be given up in marriage even though they have not attained the eligible age which is 18. That a girl child has made a misstake of having a child at an early age those no mean its the end of the road for her given anoda opportunity like the government froviding for her in form of social benefit etc. This shd be our focus and not giving her up in marriage even at an age when she does not know wat marriage is its a shame on anyone who as much as think this a solution I don't care wat ur views are but it is barbaric and shud be condemed. Thanks one blood one nigeria one africa.
What do you mean till there are no 5years old to marry? Are you saying it is ok to marry under age girls? In your cartoon, you have the abbreviation VVF . So you are aware of the danger of vesico vagina fistula. That this son of a bitch can cause that girl's rectum to tear into her vagina b'cos her waist is too narrow for her to give birth due to her young age. Do you know how many under age Hausa girls are leaking feaces through their vaginas b"cos of pedophiles like Yerima? The constitution needs to be written clearly & yerima should be forced to return that child to her parents or face jail time. That child should be in high school not married to old guy old enough to be her great grandpa. He has messed up that child's life. She is not a wife. She is a sex slave.
ReplyDeleteHis penis should be cut off. Why does he want a child. Why not someone his own age. They are following the example of their crazy prophet who married a 9year old. Why doesn't he wait to get to ? Heaven & get 70 virgins. Seems to me this useless islamic religion is all about sex and sex with children and killing people. That is satanic
ReplyDeleteI think this contributor is going too far. The most unfortunate thing about him/her is illetracy which has eaten deep down his system thereby making him deaf, dumb and blind with a permanent seal on his mind. Why not study a situation before commenting? I am calling on to people like you to stop making blasphemous statements against our noble prophet or else you will be visited with calamity beyond your imagination.
DeleteBacking an insain man up to gain favours all we are good at. U r as shameless as yerima! Beautiful nonsense indeed.
ReplyDeleteDr Zainab or woteva ur kulled. U can't use ur imaginative thoughts n useless prepositions to confuse anyone. U n Yerima need to see a phychologists for proper examination n possible treatment. Dr zainab n Yerima shld bring der 10yr old daughters for marriage, suitors are waiting for dem all over d country.
ReplyDeleteWhile i concour on some of your submissions,i expostulate on most of them.from my own stand-point,i want to ask why an Adult man would want to marry an immature 13yrs old girl.whether it is islamic or catholic or a western idea,BOTTOM LINE-it is immoral,senseless,abysmal,ludicrous,appalling,disgusting and Demonic
ReplyDelete"In the US for instance blah bla bla. ......."
ReplyDeleteFunny how those who perceive the west as enemies can shamelessly emulate them to justify selfish interest in the name of religion.
How come this writer hasn't made a case for gay marriage and other such abomination for the flimsy reason that it is a western idea?
those that are against child marriage, what can you say about early fornication? what are you doing to stop it.
ReplyDeleteIn other words, Ms. Zainab, you are calling Yerima a human being?????
ReplyDelete@Lawal ahmad isa a child does not know wat is sex, he/she was introduced to it by an adult people like yerima. And after that wat do u expect. Imagine a man like yerima disvirgining over 100 under age girls in his lifetime wat will become of this girls. Wat we r doing is comdening this act towards a girl child . That is your we have civil organizations fighting for rights of women and the girl child at large. But as we can see the men do not share our pain which is why as old as they cud be grand dads to this children they will accept to such an insane law (legislators). Shame on them all.
ReplyDeleteThanks sese, I find that most of the Muslims who have spoken are talking about how girls are promiscuous and there are no more Virgins and bla bla bla. Stupid justification for marrying children. You guys are animals.
DeleteI'll say this, protect your children against these animals. A lot isn't done about the issues we are facing in Nigeria yet this comes up and is actually been debated on? Parents should start teaching their children early about sex and it's like. it should be taught in the places of worship and in schools and other genuine social gathering by genuine people, most importantly responsible parents let your lives be an example as you open your eyes wide to observe and care. God help Nigeria!
ReplyDeleteI am a 65 years old single man or should i say guy? Can someone please help me with Alhaji Yerima's number i heard he has a 12 years old daughter he is willing to give out in marriage and also Dr. Zainab Shinkafi-Bagudu's daughter of 11 years old. I promise to love n cherish them and also make dem my sex slaves. Come to think to it, threesome wont be a bad idea. Me, a 65 years old man with 2 pre-teens.......
ReplyDeleteAll of these shows how morally and Mentally bankrupt our leaders are. The future of this country is at stake with all this strike and yet our senators are not deeming it fit to address such issues rather they are busy with issues of child marriage. May God Help us all. And as for your Dr. Zainab Shinkafi-Bagudu if you looking for an avenue to practise your thesis why not try writting and supporting issues that has to do with Nation Development and not this arrant nonsense. Dr. Zainab Shinkafi-Bagudu will you give your 11 years old daughter im marriage to me a 65 years old man? you guys should get a life.
If this is the thinking of our leaders, den i am sorry to say we are heading for disaster. NIGERIA WE HAIL THEE
All d churches approved same sex marrage, ur so call America & Britain approved same sex marrage and is ok by u. Go 2 kuramo beach and see hw 12yr old girls r making luv left right and centre,am sure dats wat u want 4 ur dotas.
ReplyDelete'M almost sure the writer has an under-age he is sleeping with or he indeed must been having some pecuniary gains......
ReplyDelete'M however very surprised he is a medical doctor....'M sure he is a quack...a crack one at that
wat rubbish is this zainab talking about?
ReplyDelete@ Lawal Ahmad Isa: Why do you people like twisting things? Are you saying that marrying a child will stop her from engaging in early fornication? I think you are missing the point of this debate. I am sure that you would gladly give your daughter to a man as old as Yerima.
ReplyDelete@ July 22, 2013 at 1:51 PM
ReplyDeleteTeach a child early about his or her body. Let him or her understand the dangers of engaging in premarital sex. Proper sex education (which doesn't make sex look like a dirty thing) is necessary. Members of both gender need to understand that their bodies are not for panel beating. Those 12 year olds you saw at Kuramo beach have a faulty family background. Using Early fornication as an excuse to support early marriage is sick in my opinion. I support Tochi's comment about parents living by example. Most times parents deceive themselves when they believe that their children are oblivious to their extra marital adventures. So Mr. Lawal and Anonymous...just say that you love the idea of bedding a child. Then we will refer you guys to the nearest shrink for therapy.
'M almost sure the writer has an under-age he is sleeping with or he indeed must been having some pecuniary gains......
ReplyDelete'M however very surprised he is a medical doctor....'M sure he is a quack...a crack one at that
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I didn't see the name of any woman among the 35. Is it that we don't have women senators or that they didn't support the removal of the clause which as our dear writer stated, would have been biased against women?
ReplyDelete@Dr. Zainab Shinkafi-Bagudu ...let us be careful in expressing our sentiments and use social media to unite Nigeria unshakably, instead of ripping her apart bit by bit. God Help Nigeria today and Always
ReplyDeletewho the hell is this "Sese"? cant you make your argument without attacking the author?
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