The 35-year-old woman, who lives at 5, Olusegun Street, Orile-Agege, told the court that her husband left her since ten years ago. ”My husband is lazy; he did not work through out the period we were together as husband and wife, he leaned on me.
The mother of one spoke amidst tears when narrating how her husband had been fetish and denied her access to her child for eight years. ”Since eight years ago, I don’t know where my child is, where he is schooling or talked to him on phone. ”My husband begged me to release my child for him to spend his holiday with him and since then I have not seen my child.
”I have gone to his family but they were all lying to me. I suffered so hard in Shobayo’s house. I single handedly took care of my child,”she said. The husband, Bankole Shobayo, failed to obey the court summon the third time. Meanwhile, the court president, Mr Joseph Adewusi, adjourned the case till Jan. 31 for further hearing. Click to signup for FREE news updates, latest information and hottest gists everyday
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I am not writing to comment on the story, i just need a way to cool off my own anger. For almost 1 yr now,anytime me and my husband made love, i was always the one who made the move to initiate intimacy, he always had a reason why he didnt initiate it but because he always performed, i never felt there was something wrong only for me to see a chat between him and an ex girlfriend of his, where he was sending her pictures of nude girls and asking her when was the last time she spread her legs for him like that, asking her if she had the kind of gstring pant the nude girl was wearing.i asked him about it and he said that they were not sleeping together that he was sorry that he had no excuse for the behaviour.i feel very betrayed, after everyhing i have put in into the relationship, he had the heart to cheat on me with an ex. I am so bitter right now. God help me
ReplyDeleteSo sorry your hurt, i knw how painful it must be, ive been there myself, caught my ex hubby red handed, in our room! on our bed! And prior to that i'd seen erotic chats on his laptop, so needless to say he may never admit to sleeping with her... I attempted forgiveness, yea that didnt work out, cldnt get the image out of my head...my dear ur at a crossroads, decide whether u'll forgive and carry on or not, but make sure he understands how devastated you are...serious stuff here, take heart dear.
DeleteSo sad woman! All you need do now is PRAY cos your marriage is on the verge of collapse. Ask God to touch his heart & restore back his unadultereted love for you. Why most marriages aren't working these days is because God which is the basis to a successful marriage is missing. Don't feel bitter anymore. Let God take control. KJoe
DeleteAunty I NEED TO VENT...Only you know the truth pertaining to this relationship. How many girlfriends of his did you fight off in the bid to become his wife? I am not accusing you of anything but I learnt from a very wise source that "If you employ combat as a tool to become a man's mrs, be ready to keep using it to stay his mrs(long term success not guaranteed though)"
ReplyDeleteYou know where this whole thing went wrong and I am speaking from experience. You are already in a very tight spot that is why you are using NE to express your bitterness. If your husband is sleeping with his ex he would never admit it just as he (probably) never admitted to his ex that he was sleeping with someone else (could it have been you?) until their relationship ended.
My dear search yourself. There is no smoke without fire! Good luck!
This is true @2:11am but there those men that chase you to the ends of the earth and still stray after they've won ur heart, this is why its important to keep dating your spouse, keep the flames of passion alive, alot of times ppl (men and women) cheat out of sheer boredom among many other reasons....human beings are creatures of habit, we get stuck in routines and its easy to take our spouses for granted..
DeleteAnytime someone says "After everyhing(sic) i have put in into the relationship..." fear dey catch me.
ReplyDeleteBros,its not easy to liv with one woman morning afternoon and night and be eating d same thing for years o. only GOD can sav d situation
ReplyDelete@7:32am men like you shld remain bachelors, seriously, marraige isnt mandatory..2nd of all ppl are not food, that analogy is tired and quite frankly stupid, sorry.
DeleteI will advice you to change your style including your dressing .
ReplyDeleteWhen you are at home dress like somebody who want to represent Nigeria at UNN and dont forget to make your under... look like somebody who want to represent Nigeria in miss world .
One more thing try to change your style ( hope you understand what i mean ) ,increase your good character and dont force your opinion on him .
Dont forget to increase your food recipe .
Leave him alone with his privacy .
All aforementioned points work like magic.
Do you know that man dont like sinner but they are sinner as well .
Summary of my advice for you , try to invent new style in everything you are doing in the way that is pleased to God .
ANY RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE THAT CAN BE ESTIMATED, MEASURED, COUNTED, VALUED OR PRICE TAGGED IS A FARCE. THE LOVE IS A CHOPBOX LOVE. TRUE LOVE BEARS NO GROUSE AND COUNTS NO OFFENCE. WHEN YOU HEAR-- afterall i have --, RELATIONSHIP BECOMES A SUICIDAL INVESTMENT WHICH A MAN SHOULD BE WARY ABOUT
ReplyDeleteIT IS NOT ANY HUMAN' FAULT THAT IN EVERY TEN GIRLS, YOU HAVE ONE BOY. WHEN THE BOY MARRIES ONE OF THE GIRLS, WHAT IS THE FATE OF THE OTHER NINE? CRUSHING, NO. THEY MUST FIND A WAY TO GREAZE UP. IF YOU ARE THE LUCKY ONE, THANK GOD YOU ARE. MIND YOUR CHILDREN NOT THE MAN
Everywia Marriage breaks. Na wa o!
ReplyDeletehe/she who fights and run away, lives to fight another day. a palm wine tapper says not everything he sees while tapping his wine. if you are a girl friend today, remember that tomorrow as a wife your ractions and attentions are subject to change. if you continue to think and act like a girlfriend, you will be treated thus.
ReplyDeleteMadam sorry fø̲̣я what Ɣöu r passing tru but I'll say thou brought it upon thyself. What Ɣöu don't know doesn't hurt. Thou puttest thy nose where they don't belong, Ɣöu found what Ɣöu r looking fø̲̣я aήð Ɣöu r sad. Nxt time Ɣöu will learn to keep ♈ōϋя nose where they're supposed to be.
ReplyDeleteNow Ɣöu hv caught him red handed, †ђξ choice is now ♈ōϋяs either to forgive him aήð carry on or to file a divorce as Ɣöu r permitted even by †ђξ bible to do so. But think..........
What do you mean her nose doesn't belong there? Is she not his wife? Is a husband's business not his wife's business? If anything happens to him or he catches something by sleeping with other women, will he not pass it to his wife? There is no more loyalty in this world. Whoever is not loyal to their spouse should not expect loyalty. They are just two enemies tolerating each other and living under the same roof. They will soon kill each other .
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